ignored or disappointed hurts more because it affirms the incorrect belief that she is unworthy.
NOW THE VENUSIANS LEARN TO FEEL WORTHY
For centuries the Venusians compensated for this fundamental fear of unworthiness by being
attentive and responsive to the needs of others. They would give and give, but deep inside they
did not feel worthy of receiving. They hoped that by giving they would become more worthy.
After centuries of giving they finally realized that they were worthy of receiving love and
support. Then they looked back and realized that they had always been worthy of support.
This process of giving to others prepared them for the wisdom of self-esteem. Through giving
to others they camme to see that others truly were worthy of receiving, and thus they began to
see that everyone deserved to be loved. Then, finally, they saw that they too deserved to
receive.
Here on Earth, when a little girl experiences her mother receiving love, then automatically she
feels worthy. She is able easily to overcome the Venusian compulsion to give too much. She
doesn't have to overcome a fear of receiving because she identifies so closely with her mother.
If her mother has learned this wisdom then the child automatically learns it through observing
and feeling her mother. If the mother is open to receive, then the child learns how to receive.
The Venusians, however, did not have role models, so it took them thousands of years to give
up their compulsive giving. Through gradually seeing that others were worthy of receiving,
they realized that they also were worthy of receiving. At that magical moment the Martians also
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