understood why his work scored only one point.
Actually, Pam had good reason to be unhappy. She truly needed Chuck's personal energy,
effort, and attention much more than their wealthy lifestyle. Chuck discovered that by
spending less energy making money and devoting just a little more energy in the right
direction, his wife would be much happier. He recognized that he had been working longer
hours in hopes of making her happier. Once he understood how she kept score, he could come
home with a new confidence because he knew how to make her happy.
LITTLE THINGS MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE
There are a variety of ways a man can score points with his partner without having to do much.
It is just a matter of redirecting the energy and attention he is already giving. Most men already
know about many of these things but don't bother to do them because they don't realize how
important the little things are to a woman. A man truly believes the little things are
insignificant when compared to the big things he is doing for her.
Some men may start out in a relationship doing the little things, but having done them once or
twice they stop. Through some mysterious instinctive force, they begin to focus their energies
into doing one big thing for their partners. They then neglect to do all the little things that are
necessary for a woman to feel fulfilled in the relationship. To fulfill a woman, a man needs to
understand what she needs to feel loved and supported.
The way women score points is not just a preference but a true need. Women need many
expressions of love in a relationship to feel loved. One or two expressions of love, no matter
how important, will not, and cannot, fulfill her.
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