This can be extremely hard for a man to understand. One way to look at it is to imagine that
women have a love tank similar to the gas tank on a car. It needs to be filled over and over
again. Doing many little things (and scoring many points) is the secret for filling a woman's
love tank. A woman feels loved when her love tank is full. She is able to respond with greater
love, trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement. Lots of little
things are needed to top off her tank.
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Following is a list of 101 of the little ways a man can keep his partner's love tank full.
101 WAYS TO SCORE POINTS WITH A WOMAN
1. Upon returning home find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug.
2. Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she was planning to do
(e.g., "How did your appointment with the doctor go?").
3. Practice listening and asking questions.
4. Resist the temptation to solve her problem, sympathize instead.
5. Give her twenty minutes of unsolicited, quality attention (don't read the newspaper or be distracted by
anything else during this time).
6. Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.
7. Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she
wants to do.
8. If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn and she seems tired or really busy, offer to make
dinner.
9. Compliment her on how she looks.
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