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Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus

way, the more a man is able to learn to open up and share his hurt and pain. 
 
HOW MEN GIVE POINTS 
 
Men give points differently from women. Every time a woman appreciates what a man has 
done for her, he feels loved and gives her a point in return. To keep the score even in a 
relationship, a man really doesn't require anything but love. Women don't realize the power of 
their love and many times unnecessarily seek to earn a man's love by doing more things for 
him than they want to do. 
 
When a woman appreciates what a man does for her, he gets much of the love he needs. 
Remember, men primarily need appreciation. Certainly a man also requires equal participation 
from a woman in doing the domestic duties of day-to-day life, but if he is not appreciated, then 
her contribution is nearly meaningless and completely unimportant to him. 
 
Similarly, a woman cannot appreciate the big things a man does for her unless he is also doing 
a lot of little things. Doing a lot of little things fulfills her primary needs to feel cared for
understood, and respected. 
 
A major source of love for a man is the loving reaction that a woman has to his behavior. He has 
a love tank too, but his is not necessarily filled by what she does for him. Instead it is mainly 
filled by how she reacts to him or how- she feels about him. 


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When a woman prepares a meal for a man, he gives her one point or ten points, depending on 
how she is feeling toward him. If a woman secretly resents a man, a meal she may cook for him 
will mean very little to him-he may even give minus points because she was resenting him. The 

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