The Art Of Saying no: How To Stand Your Ground, Reclaim Your Time And Energy, And Refuse To Be Taken For Granted


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The art of saying no

15 TO 30
points - You have little difficulty saying no. You
make judicious decisions regarding how to use your time
and other resources, and remain resolute when others
disparage those decisions. Meeting your obligations,
addressing your responsibilities, and caring for your own
happiness have a higher priority than pleasing people.
31 TO 45
points - You sometimes feel conflicted when
pursuing your personal and/or professional goals, knowing
you could be helping others realize theirs. Saying no isn’t a
major problem for you, and you often decline requests out
of necessity. Nevertheless, you say yes more often than
you’d like.


46 TO 60
points - You’re driven to please people, even if
you’re not consciously aware of it. You’re highly averse to
conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it. When
confronted with another’s anger, irritation, distress, or
displeasure, you immediately drop what you’re doing to
rescue that person. Rescuing him or her usually entails
surrendering to the individual’s requests.
61 TO 75
 points - Everything you do, from the moment you
wake up, is geared toward making other people happy. You
rarely consider your own happiness, and are willing to set
aside your own goals and responsibilities to accommodate
others. You maintain no personal boundaries, allowing
people to intrude upon you at their whim. The idea of saying
no is unimaginable since doing so might negatively affect
others. You are, in effect, a chronic people pleaser.
I
F YOUR SCORE
is greater than 30, I have good news. You’ll find
the tactics and strategies covered in Part III: 10 Strategies
For Saying No (Without Feeling Like A Jerk) will deliver
immediate, practical value.
Fair warning: applying the advice won’t be easy. The
people-pleasing habit is a difficult one to break. But it is
possible regardless of how ingrained the habit is in your
psyche. The remainder of The Art Of Saying NO will guide
you step by step toward transforming this aspect of your
life.
Coming Up Next
You’re aware of the problem, and the degree to which it
impacts your daily experience. You also recognize the
reasons you put other people’s priorities ahead of your own.
But you’re unsure what to do to break the habit.


I’ll show you what to do in
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