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BY ANTHONY ROBBINS
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So, how do you mirror another person's physiology? What kinds of physical
traits can you mirror? Start with the voice. Mirror
the tonality and phrasing, the
pitch, how fast (s)he talks, what sort of pauses the person makes, the volume.
Mirror favorite words or phrases. How about posture and breathing patterns, or
eye contact,
body language, facial expressions, hand gestures,
or other distinctive
movements? Any aspect of physiology, from the way a person plants their feet to
the way (s)he
tilts their head, is something you can mirror.
What if you could mirror everything about another person? Do you know
what happens? People feel as though they've found their soul mate, someone who
totally
understands, who can read their deepest thoughts, who is just like them.
But you don't have to mirror everything about a person to create a state of
rapport. If you just start with the tone of voice
or a similar facial expression, you
can learn to build incredible rapport with anyone.
When you break it down, there are two keys to mirroring-keen observation
and personal flexibility. Representational systems provide keys to a secret code.
There
are verbal cues, like the ones on the next page, for example:
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