Бола – одоби билан азиз (Фарзанд тарбиялашда ота-оналарга маслаҳатлар) Нашрга тайёрловчи: Зиёвуддин Раҳим

Foydalanilgan manbalar
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Hasaniy. Toshkent, 1997.
2. Vatandosh allomalarimizning hikmatli fikrlari. Toshkent, 2012.
3. Farzandlar jannat rayhonlaridir. Tursun xo‘ja Hidoyatxo‘jaev. 
Toshkent, 2002.
4. Buyuk imom Abu Hanifa. Yo‘ldosh Eshbek. Toshkent, 2004.
5. Ilm olish sirlari. Safo Saygili. Toshkent, 2010.
6. Islom odobi va axloqi. Ahmadjon Bobomurod. Toshkent, 2002.
7. Saodat quchganlar ibrati. Abduqayum Hikmat. 2001.
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9. Saodat kaliti. Yo‘ldosh Eshbek. Toshkent, 2001.
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16. Hayot tomchilari. Muhammad Kamol. Toshkent, 2002.
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va ho-
kazo.

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MUNDARIJA
KIRISH ...........................................................................................................183
Odob nima? .....................................................................................................185
Nega inson aziz va mukarram? .......................................................................186
Odob oltindan qimmat ....................................................................................187
Odobli va odobsiz bola ...................................................................................188
Qaysi biri yaxshiroq? ......................................................................................191
Duosi mustajob bola .......................................................................................191
Luqmoni Hakimning o‘g‘liga nasihatlari (1) ..................................................192
Bolalar tarbiyasining o‘ziga xos jihatlari ........................................................194
Odobli bo‘lish yo‘llari .....................................................................................195
Odobli bolaning belgisi ...................................................................................196
Ota haqqini ado etgan o‘g‘il ...........................................................................198
Odobli bola bo‘lish qiyinmi? ..........................................................................198
Qizaloqlar odobi ..............................................................................................200
Inson jism va ruhdan iborat .............................................................................201
Uxlash odoblari ...............................................................................................201
Uyquga tayyorgarlik .......................................................................................201
Uyqu odoblari .................................................................................................202
Uyqudan erta turishni o‘rganing .....................................................................202
Uyqudan erta turish uchun nima qilish kerak? ...............................................203
Erta turishning foydalari .................................................................................203
Uyg‘ongandan so‘ng .......................................................................................203
Uyg‘ongandan so‘ng qilish noma’qul 
hisoblangan amallar ........................................................................................204
Luqmoni Hakimning o‘g‘liga nasihatlari (2) ..................................................204
Hojatxonaga kirish va undan chiqish odoblari ................................................206
Hojatxonaga kirishdan oldin ...........................................................................207
Hojatxonaga kirgandan keyin .........................................................................207
Hojatxonada qilish ta’qiqlanadigan ishlar ......................................................208

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Hojatxonadan chiqish ......................................................................................209
Ozodalik sog‘liq sababchisi ............................................................................211
Ko‘chada holva egan bola ...............................................................................212
Toza tutish kerak bo‘lgan narsalar ..................................................................213
Tana a’zolarini toza tutish ...............................................................................213
Har bir sohada tozalik muhimdir ....................................................................215
Zararli odatlardan uzoq bo‘ling! .....................................................................215
Janjalkash bola ................................................................................................216
Ovqatlanishdan oldin ......................................................................................217
Ovqatlanishga tayyorgarlik .............................................................................217
Yoshi katta birinchi boshlaydi .........................................................................218
Ovqatlanish paytida ........................................................................................218
Ovqatlanish paytidagi yoqimsiz ishlar ............................................................219
Ovqatlangandan so‘ng bajariladigan ishlar .....................................................220
Hikoya .............................................................................................................223
Berkinmachoq o‘yini ......................................................................................224
Bolalar uchun nonushtaning foydasi ...............................................................224
Halol rizq va halol mehnat ..............................................................................225
Bolalar lug‘ati .................................................................................................226
Harom luqma .................................................................................................226
Qulining qulidan narsa so‘ramagan odam ......................................................227
Nima uchun kiyim kiyiladi? ............................................................................228
Kiyim kiyish va echish odoblari .....................................................................228
Kiyim turlari ....................................................................................................229
Kiyish mumkin bo‘lmagan kiyimlar ...............................................................230
Kiyimlarni toza saqlash ...................................................................................231
Toza kiyim – pokiza tabiat ..............................................................................231
Ustki kiyimlar .................................................................................................232
Ko‘ylak va ichki kiyimlar ...............................................................................232
Oyoq qiyimlari ................................................................................................233
Dastro‘mol ......................................................................................................233
Ahmadning yaxshi ishi ...................................................................................234
Narsalarni toza tutish ......................................................................................235
Buyumlar tozaligi ............................................................................................235
Kitoblar ...........................................................................................................235
O‘quv qurollari ................................................................................................236

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Sochiq, tish cho‘tka va ko‘rpa-yostiqlar .........................................................237
Texnik jihozlar va o‘yinchoqlar ......................................................................237
Uy va xonalarni ozoda saqlash ......................................................................239
Rohat va tarbiya maskani ................................................................................239
Mehmonxona ..................................................................................................239
Yotoqxona va darsxona ...................................................................................240
Oshxona va ombor ..........................................................................................241
Hovli, yo‘lak va hammom ..............................................................................242
Qo‘shnisini o‘ylagan Zokir .............................................................................243
O‘quvchining uyidagi odobi ...........................................................................244
O‘quvchining maktabdagi odobi .....................................................................245
O‘qimagan bolaning oqibati ...........................................................................247
Ko‘chada yurish odobi ....................................................................................248
Haqiqiy pahlavon kim? ...................................................................................249
Farzand ota-onasi uchun nima qilishi kerak? .................................................249
Ona fazilati ......................................................................................................250
Ota fazilati .......................................................................................................250
Sen ota-onangga qanday yaxshilik qila olasan? ..............................................250
Ota-onaga yaxshilik qilish ..............................................................................251
Ota-ona o‘rnini hech kim bosolmaydi ............................................................252
Farzand ota-onadan doim qarzdor ..................................................................253
Farzand onaning bir bo‘lagidir! ......................................................................254
Boyish “yo‘li”ni topgan bola ..........................................................................254
Ota-onaga qanday munosabatda bo‘lish kerak? .............................................255
Aka-uka va opa-singillarimiz
oldidagi vazifalarimiz ................................................................................256
Kichikning o‘zidan kattani hurmat qilishi
va kattaning o‘zidan kichikka mehribonligi ..............................................256
Kattaning o‘zidan kichikka mehribonligi .......................................................257
Hikoya .............................................................................................................257
Hikmat .............................................................................................................260
Odamlarni hurmat qilish .................................................................................260
Naqadar yomon ish .........................................................................................261
Odamlarning hurmati nima bilan o‘lchanadi? ................................................262
Chiroyli muomala – bola ziynati .....................................................................263
Nasihatlar ........................................................................................................263

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Olim bo‘lgan cho‘pon .....................................................................................264
Ziyorat qilish odobi .........................................................................................264
Yaxshilikning mukofoti ...................................................................................266
Uyimizga mehmon kelganda... .......................................................................267
Saxiy Abu Hanifa ............................................................................................268
Ruxsat so‘rash odobi .......................................................................................268
Ojiz odamlarga mehribonlik qilish .................................................................269
Ojizlarga mehribonlik oliyjanoblikdir ............................................................269
Sadoqatli xizmatkor mukofoti .........................................................................270
Do‘st tanlash va ularni hurmat qilish ..............................................................271
Jamiyat oldidagi vazifalar ...............................................................................272
Jonzotlarga shafqatli bo‘lish ...........................................................................273
Mushukka ozor bergan bola ............................................................................275
Navoiy bobomiz ibrati ....................................................................................275
Mehribon Hasan .............................................................................................276
Mushukka aylangan sher .................................................................................277
Salomlashish odobi ........................................................................................277
Hikmat .............................................................................................................279
Haqiqiy do‘stlik qadri .....................................................................................279
So‘zlashish va muomala odobi .......................................................................279
Turli holatlarga qanday munosabat
bildirish haqida ..........................................................................................282
Aqlli bolaning javobi ......................................................................................283
Jamoat joylarda odobsizlik sanalgan ishlar .....................................................284
Tilni befoyda so‘zlardan tiyish .......................................................................284
Hikmatlar ........................................................................................................286
Tilini tiymagan bola ........................................................................................286
Sir saqlash .......................................................................................................287
Birovlarni yomonlamaslik ..............................................................................288
G‘iybat evaziga qilingan yaxshilik ................................................................289
Chaqimchilik illati ..........................................................................................289
Sakkiz xil taom va bir og‘iz g‘iybat ................................................................289
Maqtanchoq bo‘lmang! ...................................................................................290
Hikmat .............................................................................................................291
Bahouddin Naqshbandning karomati ..............................................................291
O‘ynash odobi .................................................................................................292

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Hikoya .............................................................................................................293
Vaqtni tejash va umr qadriga etish ..................................................................293
Maqollar ..........................................................................................................295
Hikmat .............................................................................................................295
Yoshlik qadriga etish .......................................................................................296
Kundalik ishlarni tartibga solish .....................................................................296
Tejamkorlik .....................................................................................................297
Isrofdan saqlaning! ..........................................................................................299
Foydali nasihatlar ............................................................................................301
Baxillikdan uzoq bo‘ling! ...............................................................................301
To‘rtga bo‘lingan olma ...................................................................................302
Baxillik oqibati
................................................................................................303
O‘rtacha bo‘lishni odat qiling! ........................................................................304
Foydali nasihatlar ............................................................................................305
Televizorni me’yorida ko‘ring! .......................................................................305
Bolalar televizorni qancha vaqt ko‘rishlari mumkin? .....................................306
Yomon sifatlarni bilib oling! ...........................................................................307
Ilm olish fazilati ..............................................................................................308
Rivoyat ............................................................................................................309
Hech kim olim bo‘lib tug‘ilmas ......................................................................310
Doim olg‘a qadam tashlang! ...........................................................................311
(Ibratli hikoya) ................................................................................................312
Ilm olish sirlari ................................................................................................312
Chet tillarni o‘rganish .....................................................................................317
Aql-idrok fazilati .............................................................................................317
Donolar xislati .................................................................................................319
O‘g‘ri topildi ...................................................................................................319
Iste’dod va qobiliyat .......................................................................................320
O‘z haqingni tani, birovning haqqidan qo‘rq! ................................................320
Ko‘ylagi yamoq bola .......................................................................................321
Chiroqning yog‘i kimniki? ..............................................................................322
Shijoat va jasorat .............................................................................................322
Jasur o‘g‘lon ....................................................................................................324
Dangasalikdan uzoq bo‘l! ...............................................................................325
E’tiborli bo‘lish ..............................................................................................325
Har bir qo‘y o‘z oyog‘idan... ..........................................................................326

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Mehnatkashlik kamolot omili .........................................................................326
Maqollar ..........................................................................................................327
Omonat ............................................................................................................327
Hikoya .............................................................................................................329
Aldoqchi Farrux jazo oldi ...............................................................................329
Rostgo‘ylik fazilati .........................................................................................330
Yolg‘onchi bola ..............................................................................................331
Foydali nasihatlar ...........................................................................................332
Til va dil birligi ...............................................................................................332
Va’dasi ustidan chiqish ...................................................................................333
Foydali nasihatlar ............................................................................................334
Ishonchli Muhammad .....................................................................................334
Sabrli bo‘lishni o‘rganing! ..............................................................................334
Qanoatli bo‘lish fazilati ...................................................................................336
Foydali nasihatlar ............................................................................................337
Ochko‘zlik oqibati ..........................................................................................338
Otning tuyoqlari nechta? .................................................................................339
Kechirimli bo‘lish fazilati ...............................................................................339
Kamtarinlik - ziynat ........................................................................................341
Saroy qaerda? ..................................................................................................342
Shukr qilish fazilati .........................................................................................342
Havas qilib yashang! .......................................................................................343
Hasaddan uzoq bo‘ling! ..................................................................................344
Ota-bobolarimiz o‘gitlari ................................................................................345
Foydalanilgan manbalar ..................................................................................347

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