How to Be a Femme Fatale

Draw attention to them by wearing bold 
and colourful eye looks or thick eyeliner. 
Got a great bum that you want to flaunt? 
Change your wardrobe into something 
flattering to your body type to accentuate 
your curves. It’s all about emphasising the 
things you love about yourself to boost 
your confidence and use it as a tool to 
translate your sexual energy. 

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• Explore your body and learn how to make 
yourself feel good. Invest in a vibrator. 
• Speak slowly and sustain eye contact. 
Careful speech that is in a low voice, with 
calculated word choices, as well as being 
the last person to break eye contact are 
signs of confidence. However, be careful 
not to speak too slowly as you’ll ruin the 
effect – use it sparingly, for example when 
you meet someone for a first time or if 
you’ll trying to create sexual tension. 
• Buy lingerie. Lingerie is not just for 
women with partners – it is for yourself 
too. Underwear can revolutionise your 
perspective on your body so invest in some 
quality, sexy pieces, even if you have no 
aim to show anyone. 
EXAMINE YOURSELF FROM AN 
OUTSIDE PERSPECTIVE AND HOLD 
YOURSELF ACCOUNTABLE. 

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This stage of the process requires intense and 
unforgiving honesty with yourself. You must 
separate your emotions from reality and look at 
yourself objectively. It first involves asking more 
hard questions. This isn’t to make you dislike, 
doubt or hate yourself – rather the opposite. It 
aims to eliminate your flaws and be 100% real. 
The biggest defence against your competitors in 
life is to figure out your flaws before they can, 
erase or hide them, and reinvent yourself 
completely. 
Ask yourself these questions – make sure to be 
honest with yourself: 
• What are my attractive/best qualities? 
• What are my unattractive qualities? 
• How do other people describe me? 
• What do I like and dislike the most about 
myself? 
• What is my biggest flaw? 

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• What makes me vulnerable to others? 
• What can I change? 
• What bad behaviours do I justify? 
• How have I been a bad friend/partner to 
others? 
• What do I most want to improve about 
myself? 
• How can I better embrace my emotions? 
Now, envision the femme fatale version of 
yourself you’ve always wanted to be. You want to 
get specific and answer these questions: 
• What does the ideal version of myself 
look like? 
• How does she speak? Walk? Dress? 
• How would other people describe her? 
• If I became this person, what would my 
life look like now? 

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• What would her life look like in five 
years? 
• How do men see her?