How to Be a Femme Fatale

Ways you can enhance your understanding of 
the femme fatale: 
• Construct her daily routine – from the time 
she wakes up to when she goes to bed. You 
can also use this as an opportunity to script 
an ordinary day in her life 
• Create a vision board to demonstrate her 
aesthetic and manifest her into your reality 
• Go online and find the clothes she would 
wear. Compare it to your wardrobe and 
make necessary adjustments. 
 
You can become this version of yourself at any 
moment. It is not necessary to change your 
appearance to do so – in fact, looks have little to 
do with being a femme fatale. Anyone can 
overpower and manipulate a man. This is all 

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down to recognising your power, connecting to 
your dark feminine persona and channelling it 
into your present reality. 
This is a message for all my bad bitches who have 
low self-esteem and don’t believe they have 
power to harness. The first step to taking control 
is believing you have it. There are plenty of 
beautiful and conventionally attractive women 
who are treated terribly by men because they have 
no clue how powerful they are. They haven’t 
tapped into it yet and are facing the consequences. 
And there are also women who are “ordinary” or 
unconventionally attractive at first glance but 
have men literally wrapped around their finger.
It is the energy that makes you hot and 
mysterious. And energy doesn’t lie. Tell the 
world that you are sexy and important, and 
everyone will believe you. Ever looked back on 
photos of an old hairstyle you had that you 
absolutely loved at the time, but now absolutely 

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hated it? However, when you got it everyone was 
complimenting you and treating you like you’re 
the shit? If you believe you’re the shit everyone 
else will too.  
When it comes to men specifically it all becomes 
a lot easier. But first, work on your self concept, 
reinvent yourself and invest in yourself. 

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