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3. "I thought we had established that." 
 
4. "When are you going to get off it?" 
 
5. "I don't want to deal with this again." 
 
6. "This is crazy! We are having the same argument." 
 
7. "Why do you have so many problems?" 
 
When a woman goes into her well her deepest issues tend to surface. These issues may have to 
do with the relationship, but usually they are heavily charged from her past relationships and 
childhood. Whatever remains to be healed or resolved from her past inevitably will come up. 
Here are some of the common feelings she may experience as she goes into the well. 
 
WARNING SIGNS FOR MEN THAT SHE
MAY BE GOING INTO HER WELL OR 
WHEN SHE NEEDS HIS LOVE THE MOST 
 
She Feels 
She May Say 
Overwhelmed 
"There is so much to do." 
Insecure 
"I need more." 
Resentful 
"I do everything." 
Worried 
"But what about ...?" 
Confused 
"I don't understand why…" 

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Exhausted 
"I can't do anything more." 
Hopeless 
"I don't know what to do." 
Passive 
"I don't care, do what you want." 
Demanding 
"You should …" 
Withholding 
"No, I don't want to … " 
Mistrustful 
"What do you mean by that?" 
Controlling 
"Well, did you …?" 
Disapproving 
"How could you forget …?" 
 
As she feels more and more supported at these difficult times, she begins to trust the 
relationship and is able to journey in and out of her well without conflict in her relationship or 
struggle in her life. This is the blessing of a loving relationship.