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Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus

about problems. 
 
After the Martians learned how to listen they made a most amazing discovery. They began to 
realize that listening to a Venusian talk about problems could actually help them come out of 
their caves in the same way as watching the news on TV or reading a newspaper. 
 
Similarly, as men learn to listen without feeling blamed or responsible, listening becomes 
much easier. As a man gets good at listening, he realizes that listening can be an excellent way 
to forget the problems of his day as well as bring a lot of fulfillment to his partner. But on days 
when he is really stressed he may need to. be in his cave and slowly come out by some other 
distraction, like the news or a competitive sport. 
 
WHAT THE VENUSIANS LEARNED 
 
The Venusians also found peace of mind when they finally understood that a Martian going 
into his cave was not a sign that he didn't love her as much. They learned to be more accepting 
of him at these times because he was experiencing a lot of stress. 
 
The Venusians were not offended when Martians were easily distracted. When a Venusian 
talked and a Martian became distracted, she would very politely stop talking, stand there, and 
wait for him to notice. Then she would begin talking again. She understood that sometimes it 
was hard for him to give his full attention. The Venusians discovered that by asking for the 
Martians' attention in a relaxed and accepting manner the Martians were happy to redirect their 
attention. 
 
When the Martians were completely preoccupied and in their caves, the Venusians also did not 
take it personally. They learned that this was not the time to have intimate conversations but a 

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