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English The Muslim Marriage Guide

Fatherhood.
This usually comes as a shock the first time round. Couples are 
often unprepared for the sheer exhaustion, if they are not in an extended family 
situation which can ease the strain. Babies cry a lot, need feeding at night, and so on. 
Things are never the same again-you cannot put the clock back. To make matters worse, 
babies often come along just at the time when the husband is trying hard to get on at 
work. Although these days there are various aids to help busy mothers (like disposable 
nappies), the decline of old-fashioned family life means that there is often no doting 
granny or aunt to help look after baby, and the stress for mothers can seem overwhelming. 
Many new mothers feel tired and sometimes depressed as a result, just when everyone is 
expecting them to be bouncing around with enthusiasm. Actual physical help and a lot of 
sympathy and love are the Muslim husband's duty. Also, men have to realise that the 
experience of childbirth is so total for a woman that her feelings for him may be pushed into 
the background, and although it is foolish for a man to feel jealous of his own child, this 
often happens. A Muslim woman tries to ensure that her husband is not neglected, and that 
he shares her love for the baby. It is very important that the husband picks up and loves the 
child, helps to nurse it when sick, and generally relates to it. A wife should not be expected 
to recommence intercourse with her husband for at least six weeks, and even then, if they 
are both too tired, it is important to reestablish a loving and private relationship that is 
consoling and tender. 
Foot Massage. This is sheer delight for some people, and torture for others. It can 
also be highly beneficial to the health-get a book on massage or reflexology, or go on a 
course. 
The Muslim Marriage Guide: Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood



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