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www.al-islamforall@org 62 spicuously; they should bear in mind that the urge can be just as overwhelming and just as frustrating if not fulfilled. Reward for Sex. The Prophet (P.B.U.H) actually spoke of a man's unselfish sexual fulfillment of his wife's needs as a sadaqa: 'In every declaration of subhan Allah there is a sadaqa; in every takbir, in every al-hamdu li'Llah, in every la ilaha illa'Llah, in every enjoining of good there is sadaqa. Forbidding that which is evil is sadaqa. And in a man's sexual intercourse with his wife there is sadaqa.' (Muslim) Safe Period. Some people try to avoid pregnancy without using contraceptives by only making love during the so-called 'safe-period'-usually the middle days of the menstrual cycle. This is not a reliable method, and has a failure rate of up to 30%. Scent. This is sunnah, although the wife should obviously not use it carelessly outside the home! But some people find the excessive use of scent by a partner to be irritating, and this should be looked out for. Sense of Humour. A vital ingredient in a marriage. According to a hadith, 'Allah's Messenger was one of the most humorous of people.' (Bazzar, Tabarani.) Remember, it is always kinder to laugh at yourself than at someone else. Also bear in mind that it is against the sunnah to make people laugh by making something up. Sex Films. Sexy and pornographic films are haram for Muslims. They are in fact not only degrading but dangerous, because they lead men to want and fantasize over very unrealistic sex. The women are actresses-their reaction to the men is not realistic at all but faked in order to please them. Many women would either feel nothing if these practices were indulged in, or would be shocked and upset. Sex Manuals. Vast numbers of these are now available in ordinary bookshops. Unfortunately, almost all the recent ones are illustrated, and contain assumptions and practices which are unacceptable in Islam. Anything published before about 1970 is likely to stress many of the basic questions of hygiene and morality which Muslims share. There are dozens of excellent sex manuals in Arabic. Some of these are extremely advanced, far more so, in fact, than most non-Muslim works available in the West. Many great ulema wrote such books, including Ibn Jama'a and Ibn Kamal. Imam al-Suyuti wrote no fewer than eight books on sexual technique! Sadly, these are not yet available in English. Download 1 Mb. Do'stlaringiz bilan baham: |
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