Personal Development for Smart People: The Conscious Pursuit of Personal Growth
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Personal Development for Smart People
Health and Authority
Regardless of your current health knowledge or lack thereof, you're in c o m m a n d of your physical destiny. W h i l e y o u can certainly consult with experts, the only true health guru in your life is y o u . Your well-being is yours to m a n a g e . You can delegate control but never responsibility. W h a t passes for modern health care is still fairly primitive, sloppy, and error-prone, especially w h e n compared to other technical disci- plines. If y o u go to a doctor to report a health problem, there's a fair chance you'll be misdiagnosed, and y o u may be treated based on that. Even if y o u get a correct diagnosis, your treatment is likely to be qualified with words like should, hopefully, and side effects. Ask your doctor w h y the problem occurred and h o w to prevent it from hap- pening again, and y o u may hear: " W e aren't exactly sure." If my auto mechanic ever said to m e , "Your car should be drivable now, Mr. Pavlina. Of course, there may be some side effects, includ- ing shakiness, sudden deceleration, and fluid leakage, but hopefully it w o n ' t be too b a d , " I'd be inclined to take my business elsewhere. Alternative health care isn't i m m u n e to such problems either, and we still end up with should's and maybe's. I'm not suggesting these problems are the fault of health practitioners. I'm sure they're doing the best they c a n . Nevertheless, these are issues we can't ignore. W h a t are your very best long-term health options? I don't know. I'm not y o u . If I w e r e to explain to y o u in exact detail w h a t works for m e , it w o u l d n ' t mean y o u ' d get the same results. Even if I could tell y o u w h a t produces positive results for the average person, is that any guarantee it will work for y o u as well? W h e n y o u consider your unique blend of genetic, environmental, and personality factors, h o w close to average are y o u , a n y w a y ? The simple truth is that w h e n it comes to the health of your o w n body, the only authority y o u can really trust is yourself, and even then y o u must still be careful to w a t c h out for blocks like false beliefs and media conditioning. If I give y o u any particular advice in this area that doesn't resonate with y o u , y o u should reject it and trust your o w n judgment instead. That last sentence becomes rather dizzying if 208 Health y o u consider that the statement also applies to itself, but I think y o u get the point I'm trying to make. You're the authority here, and y o u should only trust my advice to the degree that it's congruent with your o w n c o m m o n sense. If y o u can't blindly believe so-called experts, h o w can y o u possibly become a competent health authority? First, y o u can look closely at your o w n perceptions and predictions. S e c o n d , y o u can tune in and connect more deeply with the choices y o u ' v e been making to see w h a t your intuition has to say. A n d third, y o u can fill in the gaps with personal testing and experimentation. Sometimes w h e n y o u aren't sure if a choice is right for y o u , the only w a y to learn the truth is to dive in and test it for a while. I've had great success using 30-day trials for physical experimen- tation. That's h o w I b e c a m e vegetarian and later v e g a n . It's also h o w I became an early riser, regularly waking up at 5 A.M. each morning, including weekends. In each case, I wasn't sure if the change was right for m e , so I conducted a short-term trial to find out. Usually the results w e r e conclusive o n e w a y or the other, and it was a no-brainer to either make the change permanent or drop it completely. Sometimes my trial results w e r e mixed. For example, in January 2008, I conducted a 30-day trial of a low-fat raw-foods diet. I ate nothing but raw fruits, vegetables, nuts, and seeds with only 10 per- cent of my calories coming from fat. I recorded daily logs of every- thing I ate in exacting detail and shared them on my Website as I w e n t along (the final summary can be found at w w w . S t e v e P a v l i n a . c o m / r a w , if y o u ' r e curious). Although that experiment didn't turn out as I expected, I still learned a great deal from it. It was by far the hardest 30-day trial I ever did, but one thing that motivated me to keep going was knowing that I w a s n ' t just doing it for myself. I was also creating an enduring resource for others. Even though the trial didn't work out perfectly, it gave me enough information and experience to success- fully become a raw foodist t w o months later. Of course, I'll continue to share updates on my Website as my diet keeps evolving. Personal experimentation is a powerful tool for self-discovery. Try different diets. Test a variety of exercise routines. Experiment with sleep patterns. Find out w h a t works best for y o u via direct trial and error. 209 PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT FOR SMART PEOPLE There's always a risk w h e n conducting such exercises, but blindly fol- lowing social norms is inherently risky anyway. Remember that you're ultimately responsible for your o w n health decisions. If y o u do conduct your o w n experiments, consider this additional advice. First, keep a training log to record your results, at least weekly if not daily. Your logs may prove extremely useful to y o u d o w n the road, perhaps even years later, so be as honest as y o u can in your re- porting. S e c o n d , consider sharing your records publicly, such as via a blog. This allows others to learn from your experiences as well. W h e n I conducted my raw-food trial, I received a tremendous amount of encouragement, coaching, and practical advice from experienced raw foodists w h o could see exactly w h a t I was eating day by day. This helped me stay on track and avoid some potential pitfalls during my trial. I really wish I'd kept daily logs of my earlier vegetarian and vegan 30-day trials, since I'd love to look back and see w h a t I was eating t h e n . Those notes w o u l d have been great resources to share publicly for the benefit of others, especially since my results w e r e so positive. W h e n y o u get overwhelmingly positive results from a temporary experiment, make it permanent and lock in your gains. Allow this new habit to raise your baseline. If y o u continue making such personal up- grades year after year, you'll probably encounter some setbacks n o w and t h e n ; but in the long run, it's reasonable to expect that your health will see substantial improvements. For m e , the biggest benefits have been mental rather than physical. Largely because of the health changes I made during the previous 15 years, my thinking is crisper and sharper than it's ever been, and I can concentrate very deeply while tuning out distractions. This benefits me personally as well as those I serve. Your path to better health may follow a different route from mine, but the nice thing about universal principles is that they're indepen- dent of individual circumstances. You can use the same process I did to b e c o m e the authority of your o w n body, even if y o u ultimately decide to manage yours differently from h o w I m a n a g e mine. 210 |
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