UNLIMITED POWER
BY
ANTHONY ROBBINS
Copyright © 1991 by Robbins Research International. AM rights reserved. Reproduction in any form without the express written convent of Robbins Research International is prohibited.
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CHAPTER XVI-
KEY POINTS
(cont.)
The way to deal with people who are phobic is to disassociate them from their
representations several times.
One important thing to remember about refraining
is that all human behaviors
have a purpose in some context.
In some cases you may find it impossible to reframe the behavior without
confronting the underlying need that the behavior fulfills.
I want to make sure that I create for them new behavioral
choices that will fill
their needs without negative side effects,
How often have you said, "Someday I'll probably look back and laugh at this." Why
not look back and laugh at it now? It's all a matter of perspective.
If the person gets greater benefits from the old
behavior than from the new
choices, the person will probably return to the old behavior.
Reframing is really nothing more or less than a metaphor for potential and
possibility. There are very few things in your life that can't be refrained into
something better.
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