When You’re Ready, This Is How You Heal

Once that subsides and you can finally see what you’re going to be like
in the future, start asking that person questions, and see what they say
in your mind. Know that this is all entirely a projection of who you
already are and where you already know you’re meant to be heading…
it’s just a process of making you aware of that fact.
Often, visualizing yourself happy and single or happy and coupled with
someone new in the future is just what you need to let go of someone.
Your future self could also advise you on what to do in the moment, or
whether or not you really need to let a relationship go. You are
basically tapping into the counsel of the highest and wisest part of
yourself (future self = older, which means, better developed) and as
long as what you write down feels real, true and helpful, you should
trust it.
The reality is that you already are that best version of yourself.
Everything that’s happening around you right now is helping you to
realize that once and for all.

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If You Ever
Feel Lost,
please Remember
that you Can Make
a Home within
Your Own Heart
You were never meant to find a permanent home in a temporary world.
Other people were never meant to love you into a feeling of safety and
security.
You are here to make a home within your own heart. You are here to learn
not that you don’t need connection, but that without being connected to
yourself, nothing else is viable. You are here not to burrow yourself into a
life someone else built, but to find the courage to create your own.