Just as women easily make mistakes when they
don't understand what men primarily need,
men also make mistakes. Men generally don't recognize the ways they communicate that are
disrespectful and unsupportive to women. A man may even know that she is unhappy with
him, but unless he understands why she feels unloved and what she needs he cannot change
his approach. Through understanding a woman's primary needs, a man can be more sensitive
to and respectful of her needs. The following is a list of communication mistakes men make in
relation to a woman's primary emotional needs.
Mistakes Men Make When She Doesn’t Feel Loved
1. He doesn't listen, gets easily distracted, doesn't
ask interested or concerned questions.
1. She feels unloved because he is not attentive
or showing that he cares.
2. He takes her feelings literally and corrects her.
He thinks she is asking for solutions so he gives
advice.
2. She feels unloved because he doesn't
understand her.
3. He listens but then gets angry and blames her
for upsetting him or for bringing him down.
3. She feels unloved because he doesn't respect
her feelings.
4. He minimizes the importance of her feelings
and needs. He makes children or work more
important.
4. She feels unloved because he is not devoted to
her and doesn't honor her as special.
5. When she is upset, he explains why he is right
and why she should not be upset.
5. She feels unloved because he doesn't validate
her feelings but instead makes her feel wrong
and unsupported.
6. After listening he says nothing or just walks
away.
6. She feels insecure because she doesn't get the
reassurance she
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