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score twenty to thirty points. These are some examples: 
 
 
 
 
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What Happens 
Points He Gives 
Her 
1. He makes a mistake and she doesn't say "I told you so" or offer advice. 
10-20 
2. He disappoints her and she doesn't punish him. 
10-20 
3. He gets lost while driving and she doesn't make a big deal out of it. 
10-20 
4. He gets lost and she sees the good in the situation and says "We would 
never have seen beautiful sunset if we had taken this the most direct route." 
20-30 
5. He forgets to pick up something and she says "It's OK. Would you do it 
next time you are out?" 
10-20 
6. He forgets to pick up something again and she says with trusting patience 
and persistence "It's OK. Would you still get it?" 
20-30 
7. When she has hurt him and she understands his hurt, she apologizes and 
10-40 

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gives him the love he needs. 
8. She asks for his support and he says no and she is not hurt by his rejection 
but trusts that he would if he could. She does not reject him or disapprove of 
him. 
10-20 
9. Another time she asks for his support and he again says no. She does not 
make him feel wrong but accepts his limitations at that time. 
20-30 
10. She asks for his support without being demanding when he assumes the 
score is somewhat even.
1-5 
11. She asks for support without being demanding when she is upset or he 
knows she has been giving more.
10-30 
12. When he withdraws she doesn't make him feel guilty.
10-20 
13. When he comes back from his cave she welcomes him and doesn't punish 
him or reject him.
10-20 
14. When he apologizes for a mistake and she receives it with loving 
acceptance and forgiveness. The bigger the mistake he makes the more points 
he gives.
10-50 
15. When he asks her to do something and she says no without giving a list of 
reasons why she can't do it.
1-10 
16. When he asks her to do something and she says yes and stays in a good 
mood.
1-10 
17. When he wants to make up after a fight and starts doing little things for 
her and she starts appreciating him again.
10-30 
18. She is happy to see him when he gets home.
10-20 
19. She feels disapproving and instead of expressing it she goes in another 
room and privately centers herself and then comes back with a more centered 
and loving heart. 
10-20 
20. On special occasions she overlooks his mistakes that might normally 
upset her.
20-40 
21. She really enjoys having sex with him.
10-40 
22. He forgets where he put his keys and she doesn't look at him as though 
he was irresponsible.
10-20 
23. She is tactful or graceful in expressing her dislike or disappointment 
about a restaurant or movie when on a date.
10-20 
24. She doesn't give advice when he is driving or parking the car and then 
appreciates him for getting them there.
10-20 
25. She asks for his support rather than dwelling on what he has done wrong.
10-20 
26. She shares her negative feelings in a centered way without blaming, 
rejecting, or being disapproving of him.
10-40