time to talk about problems with their friends or have fun and go shopping. When the Martians
thereby felt loved and accepted, the Venusians discovered that the Martians would more
quickly come out of their caves.
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Chapter 4
How to Motivate the
Opposite Sex
Centuries before the Martians and Venusians got together they had been quite happy living in
their separate worlds. Then one day everything changed. The Martians and Venusians on their
respective planets suddenly became depressed. It was this depression, however, that motivated
them eventually to come together.
Understanding the secrets of their transformation helps us today to recognize how men and
women are motivated in different ways. With this new awareness you will be better equipped
to support your partner as well as get the support you need at difficult and stressful times. Let's
go back in time and pretend to witness what happened.
When the Martians became depressed, everyone on the planet left the cities and went to their
caves for a long time. They were stuck and couldn't come out, until one day when a Martian
happened to glimpse the beautiful Venusians through his telescope. As he quickly shared his
telescope, the sight of these beautiful beings inspired the Martians, and their depression
miraculously lifted. Suddenly they felt needed. They came out of their caves and began budding
a fleet of spaceships to fly to Venus.
When the Venusians became depressed, to feel better they formed circles and began talking
with one another about their problems. But this didn't seem to relieve the depression. They
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