chance to do now.
You’re not going to forget about this person. You’re going to have to get
distracted.
“Forgetting” about someone is impossible. The more you try not to
think about them, the more you will. Carrying on with your days like
nothing has changed is not what it’s going to take to “move on” with
your life. The normal that you once knew is gone. If you keep trying to
live as though this person is still around, you will be orbiting around
empty spaces. It will be impossible to not think of them and mourn for
them constantly. You will sit in the room you used to sit in together and
cry. You’ll visit the store you use to shop in together and feel defeated.
You’ll see the friends you used to hang out with and sense
embarrassment because in a very public way, you failed.
You need to get up, you need to start over, and you need to begin anew.
You need new places, people, and routines. You need new adventures
and goals and plans.
This is how you get over anything: you fill your life with so many
powerful, world-altering things that slowly, over time, you begin to
think about them less and less. Not because you’re trying to, but
because you have so many other things to think about now. You have so
many places to go, things to hope for, and passions to keep your mind
consumed.
As time goes on, you’ll think about that person less and less and less.
Not because you magically stopped caring about them one day, but
because you started filling your life with things you cared about more.
That, right there, is the magic of heartbreak: it forces you to be a
different person. Unless you want to mourn forever, you have to
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